What Is Tantric Massage?
Tantra massage is provided from the heart. In a tantric massage, the whole body takes part and erotic zones can likewise be touched. A tantra massage takes location on the basis of equality and develops an intimate connection between massage giver and receiver.
Tantric Massage is everything about Loving touch
A tantric massage is a loving touch loaded with attention and presence. Tantra massage is offered from the heart. A lot of touch will take place through the hands (or body to body) it is actually love that touches. The hands of the provider are linked with his/her heart. The touch is loving, always concentrated on the wellness of the receiver. The recipient is likewise present, and receives active as well as feels (ultimately) from the heart. Be caring!
Full of attention and presence during tantric massage
A tantra massage is a loving touch filled with attention and presence. Both the giver and the receiver are entirely present. Do not think of the other day or tomorrow. Don't look around or being hectic with something else, no, your complete attention is on giving or getting the massage. A really conscious touch from the heart. Receive also extremely knowingly, feeling it in your heart. Tantra massage is not about routine, fixed patterns are really out of the question. Whatever occurs in the minute, in complete awareness, lovingly attuned to each other and the circumstance. Dreaming away or going to sleep is also not planned (still, when that's what you require, it's ok).
A tantric massage isn't really about a fixed result
A tantric massage will always be various. You never ever understand how it will end up. It is not the method or the desired series of rubbing that is very important, it has to do with what is appropriate/necessary. What/where does the recipient most require at the minute? What is excellent for her/him? Love knows what to do, enjoy always has an appropriate response. Therefore the massage will be precisely that exactly what is needed. Adequate is that the provider exists and keeps tuning in to his/her heart, to the frequencies of love. The divine likewise has its own strategy, you can't "do" it.
Tantric massages for that reason frequently take an extremely surprising course. Whatever suits a bigger whole. For instance, a tantric massage does not always have to be "fine", ending in bliss. A "failed" massage can be the first action in an excellent advancement.
How to get the best from your tantric massage
Constantly with respect to limitations
We understood it for a long time, obviously, but considering that the #MeToo discoveries, some things have shown up in the world of tantra massage. Masseurs (you do not hear that much about masseuses) who force their own sexual pleasure/lust on "clients". Obviously, this has little to do with tantric massage. The safety of both giver and receiver always need to be guaranteed. Caring attunement always comes.
Set clear borders in advance
Everyone (except when you are informed) has his limitations. This is human and is also necessary (read the article on protecting boundaries. So think beforehand (both as provider and receiver) what your limitations are. Make sure there is a correct consumption, and a decent preparation (also with your lover/massage partner). Set clear limits in advance: about mental borders, and likewise make sure for clearness about physical boundaries. It is a misunderstanding that a tantric massage need to always be naked, nonsense. With clothing on is also entirely ok (though hard to deal with oil then). It is likewise a misunderstanding that a tantric massage should be focussed on the sexual parts of the body (breasts/sex), rubbish too. Personally, we have given/received numerous tantric massages only on the head. Also, in addition, actually each cell is sensuous, however you will be astonished.
Tantric massage is an energetic massage
Trigger and let flow freely
Activating and freeing the flow of life energy (prana) is the main part of tantra massage. In a tantric massage, the entire body participates and erogenous zones can also be touched. In tantra massage we play with the activation of fundamental/ sexual/ psychological/ enthusiastic/ love/ production/ instinctive energy.
Focused on the natural thrilled state of being
There is a conversation going on whether tantra massage is part of "real" tantra. Well ... Tantra is a very practical, body-oriented movement, a vision of life focused on growing in love and consciousness. In a split second you can end up being informed (by 1000% surrender), but typically, that is a process in time. Tantra understands different strategies to utilize on the journey to knowledge. As far as we are worried, tantra massage is among them. Tantra has no function aside from self-realization: bring back the natural (delighted) state of being.
Typically leading to a fantastic physical, mental wellness
Tantra assists you to become more relaxed, more vibrant, more energetic, more loving therefore much more. In fact, you "find out" to enjoy yourself, your body, your (sexual) energy and life itself. This is also the case with a tantra massage. Due to the fact that this is exactly what takes place frequently: the recipient is enjoying it! Delighting in is completely allowed! A tantra massage is generally great, in some cases delicious. We, for that reason, invite you to fully enjoy receiving ánd providing a tantric massage. Feel, utilize your senses. Hear, odor, taste, feel and show that you like it. Let your body speak!
What Tantric massage isn't?
There are many types of massage. Of course, all massages have particular practices and techniques in common. There is a huge difference with e.g.:
* Relaxation massage (focused on relaxation).
* Sports massage (focused on the muscles).
* Erotic massage (targeted at enjoyment complete satisfaction).
* (Body) treatment (targeted at recovery).
Not Therapy
Well because you are really super energetic during/after the massage. A tantra massage is NOT a sexual massage either. It's a kind of fashion these days to see tantra massage as a therapy, but treatment is an occupation apart.
The fundamentals of tantric massage.
For an in-depth description, see the post on the fundamentals of tantric massage. In summary, the following basics stick out:
Tantra massage ideas-- before you begin
* Produce a warm, confutable tantric massage area (this can be done quickly on both an infall massage or an outcall massage).
* Provide great conditions (physically, but also mentally).
* Make clear agreements!
* start by getting naked together.
Tantric massage tips-- during the massage.
* Start, stay, end linked to each other.
* Constantly keep your attention on the massage.
* Ensure your massage is demand complimentary, do not press or require anything.
* Open your very own heart, and open the heart of the receiver.
* Trigger (sexual) energy and disperse it throughout the whole body.
* Do not just use your hands. Discover the body to body massage.
* From time to time ... not do anything at all! Be 1000% present. Enjoy!
* Utilize your senses.
* Offer feedback (enjoyment noises?).
* Construct in combination website (rest) moments.
Demand totally free.
Some masseurs are more/mainly interested in what they themselves discover enjoyable, fun, preferable. Though a tantra massage is not a work job, so as a giver you can likewise enjoy yourself, still the core is that you are there for the recipient. Forget your own "needs", stay away from your own problems and above all ... do not attempt to force anything. Absolutely nothing needs to be done, absolutely nothing is required! Once again, don't aim to impose anything (your own goal/body/needs/ sexuality) on the receiver! Tune in to what the recipient requirements. It is as it is, and it goes as it goes. Rely on love. Maybe you are disappointed when somebody goes to sleep. You might not be waiting on an emotional cry, but a tantric massage has no objective. No intended outcome. It is what it is. Accept that.
Tantra massage ideas-- after the massage.
* Take enough time to process, to let the massage settle.
* Take some time to exchange your experiences.
* Understand that a tantric massage can have an effect for days. Be careful/alert.
* Do not instantly go "full-on". Take your time and rest after the massage.
10 important tantra massage ideas (insights/rules).
* Do not work towards an objective. We get asked all the time, it this a happy ending massage? Yes it can be, it typically is however there is no pressure for you to carry out, this is about letting that energy circulation.
* Regard borders, set clear limits beforehand. Our masseuses are mostly extremely open minded - they are naturally due to the fact that of the nature of their work but they are masseuses - not escorts.
* Keep the desires of the recipient in mind, naturally. However, understand that it can end up differently.
* It is constantly an energetic massage. Start with the heart.
* Activate sexual energy. Energize the entire body. Being excited is normal and desirable.
* Self-love and awareness (at the recipient) are extremely important! A lot can show up.
* Be alert to restored freezing minutes. Avoid limits from being crossed once again.
* Action by step becoming freer ... Growing trust ... fine. Beware: no sex! Practice makes best. Taking pleasure in the restored balance and connection in between sex and heart.
* Provide feedback (e.g. satisfaction noises) and supply integration moments (just not doing anything).
* Tantra massage is more than sexual fulfillment, still: can Yoni or Lingam massage take place?
Do not discharge, however recharge.
This is how you experience heart orgasm and body orgasm.
By this we indicate do not rush towards the climatic ending, hold it, be in the minute, let that sexual energy construct and flood your entire body.
Possible results of tantric massage.
Offers peace and relaxation.
Tantric massage is a massage that gets you out of your head. A massage that brings peace and relaxation to your body. You will be calm and unwinded (however you will not go to sleep). During/after the massage it ends up being peaceful in your head (in some cases completely empty).
Brings your life energy into movement.
Tantrix massage brings you the experience of incredibly flowing life energy. The tantric touch is healthy, massage has a potential recovery impact. Even though tantra massage is not the same as recovery, this release might recover some blockades.
Makes you soft and caring.
Tantra massage opens your body and your heart. You become more loving, you learn exactly what it is like to love yourself.
Is taking pleasure in.
You will feel comfortable in your body. The mix of relaxation and a great deal of energy implies that you can enjoy yourself, your body, your energies. With the love improvement, you might end up being not only happy but even euphoric. A happy state of being is possible. The more you give up, the better you will feel.
In short, tantric massage is ...
* A caring touch.
* Full of attention and presence.
* The entire body participates.
* Energetic massage, including sexual energy.
* Without basic type, without predefined outcome.
* With respect to (shared) boundaries.
* Establishes a (heart) connection in between the provider and receiver.
* Focused on the natural, happy state of being of the recipient.
* Typically leading to a wonderful physical, mental wellness (of both).